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A cleaning rota for a house share that people follow

A couple can fall back on a shared future and a family on a parent. A house share has neither: nobody can make anybody clean. Its rota has to be written while nobody is annoyed yet, has to say where shared space ends, and has to account for the deposit at the end. Here is how, with the deposit rules checked against the current law in England and the scheme figures as published.

Published 2 November 2026

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Why a house-share rota is a different object

Much rota advice is written for couples and families, and it quietly relies on things a house share lacks. A couple shares money and a future, so a dirty kitchen is a cost to both and a source of goodwill to protect. A family has someone with authority. Housemates usually have separate bank accounts, different leaving dates and no boss.

That changes what a rota is for. In a family it allocates work among people who are going to do it anyway. In a house share it is closer to a written agreement among people who could each, individually, get away with doing less. It has to work without goodwill, without authority, and with people arriving and leaving. The rest of this piece is built around those three facts.

Write it in week one, while nobody is annoyed

The best time to agree a rota is before there is a grievance, because after the first one every proposal reads as an accusation. The worst time is the Sunday evening when someone finally snaps about the bins.

A week-one rota needs only four things. The list of shared jobs, written as actions: "wipe the hob and counters", not "the kitchen". How often each comes round. Whose turn it is this week, and the rule that decides next week's. What happens when someone is away.

The rule for next week is the part many rotas leave out, and its absence is why the kitchen gets renegotiated every Sunday: nobody can say for certain whose turn it is, so the person who cares most ends up deciding. A fixed order that turns on its own removes that argument. Rotating chore schedules sets out which jobs rotate well and which are better owned by one person.

Barriers can hold that order for you: a repeating task can rotate around the household in turn, so the week moves to the next name without anyone deciding it, and every task carries a name, so a missed turn is visible rather than anonymous. A household of two is free. A share of three or more needs the Family subscription, which only the person who starts the household pays; everyone else joins free. It does not split bills, and on Android, notices about a new job arrive only while the app is open, so a share with Android phones should check the list rather than wait for a buzz.

The boundary: shared space, private space, and the sink

Rotas break at the edges of shared space. Bedrooms are private. The hallway and bathroom are shared. The kitchen is both, and many house-share arguments are about the overlap: one person's pan soaking in a shared sink, one person's food in a shared fridge.

Write down the boundary, not just the jobs. The usual version: your own dishes are yours, washed the same day, and are never part of anyone's turn; the rota covers surfaces, floors, bins, shared appliances and the bathroom. If the fridge clean-out is a job, say what happens to food nobody claims. Without that line, the person on kitchen duty ends up washing other people's dinners, and that, more than the rota itself, is what makes them stop.

The tolerance gap, and why the tidiest person ends up doing it

In many shares one person minds mess sooner than the others. If cleaning happens when someone can no longer stand it, it will always be that person, because they reach that point first. Nobody decided this; it is simply what happens when the trigger is discomfort rather than a turn.

A rota fixes the trigger, not the tolerance. When the job comes round on a date regardless of how the kitchen looks, the person who minds mess stops being the default cleaner, and the person who does not mind still does a share. It also helps to agree a standard for each job, written down, so that "done" means the same thing to everyone. That is the same advice given to couples, and in a house share it matters more, because there is no shared relationship to absorb the disagreement.

Free-riding, and the levers a house share actually has

Economists have studied a version of this in the laboratory. In a public-goods game, each player can put money into a shared pot that benefits everyone, or keep it. Ernst Fehr and Simon Gächter, in Nature in 2002, ran such games among anonymous players who would not meet again, and found that "cooperation flourishes if altruistic punishment is possible, and breaks down if it is ruled out". People were willing to pay out of their own pocket to sanction those who did not contribute.

That is a laboratory game among strangers, not a study of houses, and it is offered here as an analogy only. What it suggests is that shared effort decays when nobody can see or respond to who is not contributing. A house share cannot fine anyone, and should not try. It has three gentler levers: visibility, so that a missed turn is attributable to a name rather than to the house; a pre-agreed consequence that is not personal, such as the missed turn simply moving to the next week as well; and the shared cost at the end of the tenancy, which is the deposit.

Money: cleaners, supplies, and what you have to leave behind

Cleaning is the commonest issue in deposit disputes in the Tenancy Deposit Scheme's insured scheme. In 2024/25 it arose in 54 per cent of dispute cases, damage in 49 per cent, redecoration in 31 per cent, gardening in 14 per cent and rent arrears in 10 per cent, according to the scheme's own statistical briefing. One case can involve several issues, which is why the figures add up to more than 100. Disputes themselves are uncommon: the same briefing puts adjudications at 1.00 per cent of deposits protected in England and Wales, in its figures to March 2025.

In England, the Tenant Fees Act 2019 lets a landlord require only the payments listed in its first schedule, such as rent, a tenancy deposit, certain default fees, and council tax and utilities; a cleaning fee is not on the list. The deposit, though, is security for the tenant's obligations, and a tenancy usually requires the property back in the condition it was let, allowing for fair wear and tear. That is how a dirty oven becomes a deduction. Wales, Scotland and Northern Ireland have their own rules.

For the share, two practical rules follow. Agree in week one how shared supplies are bought: a kitty, or turns. And agree how the end-of-tenancy clean will be split, before anyone has given notice, because the person leaving first has the least reason to care about a deduction from a deposit they may not share in.

A six-week review, and the handover when someone moves out

Put a review in the rota itself: six weeks after it starts, ten minutes to change whatever is not working. A rota that can be changed on a known date is less likely to be ignored in between, because there is a legitimate place to raise a complaint.

When someone moves out, hand over in writing: which jobs were theirs, where the supplies are, and the state of the shared rooms on the day they left. A photo of the kitchen on moving day is worth more at the end of the tenancy than any memory of who cleaned it last. The new housemate should start on the rota in their first week, not after a settling-in period, because a rota you have never been on is easy to treat as other people's.

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